Three unique characteristics of Taiwanese men in Chinese culture and how to handle the relationship
The way which man to get along with woman might be different in different culture. Maybe some mean very chivalrous in some culture which might not good in other country. Today I want to share the way how Taiwanese man normally get along with girls. If you have any comment, leave your comment below.
You know girls always like shopping. There is a saying, there is always not enough cloths in girl’s closet. As a man, we have to accompany girlfriend to shop around stores. However, not every man has well tasty to give opinion when girl try out cloths. But at least, we always help girl to carry their hand bag, or any other heavy stuff for girl who can be free and easy to keep their shopping tour.
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Comparing other nationalities, Taiwanese
man are tend to be more conservative and shy. We are quite shy to confess our
feeling to the girl whom we have a crush on, not mention to approach a girl in
the night club. I think that is the reason for why we don’t see western girls
to be with Asian boys as many as other couples.
Taiwanese man has been inherited for a
transitional condition from old generation which could be considered a pros and
cons, that is being ‘’frugal’’.
We used to prepare for the worst. Base on
this we always to cut off unnecessary expending into saving in order to save
every penny for future retirement which we are willing to support our family
and take care of person we love. However this is quite different with western
condition then to be considered ‘’stingy’’ and ‘’penny pincher’’ to kill a lot
joy in party.
There is another advantage from Taiwanese
man which we think it is also inherited from our culture or the way parents
teach their children and offspring for years. It is so called’’孝順’’. Which we don’t find it is commonly appearing in dictionary. We
are educated to be independent and to be a supportive anchor for family. We
have to support and look after our parents when they are old. However, this
tradition has being lost since the new style has been replacing this by the
young generation.
I believe love could across the nations,
culture and age difference. Nothing is matter but view difference matter a lot.
In the relationship, we always just care about our self but check other people
why they don’t listen to us, but don’t forger we born and nurture from
different family and system at all. In fact, no one has to adjust for us. The
only way to sort out is to communicate each other and be sympathy.
Honestly I am still think that we are born
by individual and go by individual as well, life is so short so please to
understand the person you love more. Cheers.
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